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Minggu, 03 Oktober 2010

Causes of the Moral Deviations of the Teenagers

This time, there are many of teenagers in our country who have moral deviations. They usually do the activities or things those have negative effect for themselves or the other people. Nevertheless, they never conscious that what they do are wrong. They only think their temporary desires and don’t think their future days. They usually wrong while get, and understand a strange or new culture. As the proofs, at this time there are a lot of cases about moral deviation of the teenagers in news paper or in television. There are many of teenagers who become the suspects of law-breaks like traffic law-break, fighting, stealing, robbing, or furthermore, heavy criminal cases, like violation, prostitution, or murdering. Teenagers’ moral deviations can caused by internal and external interference.    
The causes of the moral deviation of the teenagers can be emerged from their selves. According to the argument of psychiatrists, Most of the teenagers have a labile emotion or furthermore, they are very emotional while face every serious problems. They sometimes don’t know yet that what they do are right or wrong. They always like an easy shortcut better than doing a hard work. Furthermore, they can do an extreme thing to get their wish.

For example, this is a violation case from Radar Bojonegoro, Thursday, 8th of February 2007

Failed to Get Heirloom a Boy Slash his Father

A boy slashed his father, because his wish to got his part of heirloom refused by his father. The suspect also burnt two motor cycles, one of them is the victim’s. From polices’ data mentioned, the incident occured on Tuesday at fifteen o’clock. The suspect named Suwarno came to the victim’s home at Pacul village, Bojonegoro. The suspect wanted to get his part of heirloom from the victim, but the victim refused it, then a serious debate occured. Suddenly the suspect took a “Sangkur” behind his cloth and slashed the victim with it. Then the suspect burnt his motor cycle and the victim’s motor cycle. The victim’s neighbours who heard this incident reported it to the police office. Finally polices saved the suspect and the proofs to the police office.

From that, we can conclude that this time most of the teenagers like an easy shortcut better than doing a hard work and thinking seriously. They don’t mind that what they do can cause a negative effect for themselves and for the other people. And furthermore, they can do an extreme thing to get their wish.  
The causes of the moral deviation of the teenagers also can be emerged from the environment where they live. They are two environments. The first is family environment. According to the social scientists, family environment is a place where a human know and learn socialization at the first time. This case related to the relation between the teenagers’ parents and the teenagers’ as the children. We know that the parents have a responsibility to learn and to keep their children’s moral in right direction. But, if they don’t do their responsibility correctly, it can cause bad effect to their children’s moral.
At this time, there are many of parents who don’t give enough attention to their children, because they are too busy with their jobs. So, there are many of teenagers who don’t get enough lessons about devotion, moral, and something right or wrong. So, they usually don’t know yet that what they do can cause a negative effect for themselves or the other people.
 Most of the teenagers who have moral deviation are come from a broken home family. Because the teenagers who come from a broken home family usually don’t get right attention. And usually they get a bad concern from their parents or furthermore, they get physical forces. If those problems happen, the teenagers can be disappointed or furthermore, they can get a psycho traumatic or serious depression. They can do a bad thing to flow their mind load.

For example, this is a violation case from Suara Merdeka, Thursday, 8th of February 2007

Stress, a Boy Slash his Father

Brebes- Supposed stress, Sunarto, a person from Limbangan Kulon, Brebes, Wednesday, 7th of February 2007 at about five o’clock slashed his father, Sajer with a blade. The incident happened when the Sunarto come home fom mosque. At that time the victim was still sleep. Suddenly Sunarto took a blade behind a cupboard and slash his father’s neck. His brother who saw that incident screamed to get help. Finally polices came and saved Sunarto to the police office. When polices interrogated him, Sunarto said that he slashed his father because he knew that his father did a “Pesugihan” and his father will kill him and his brothers as the tributes. So, he became stress and he wanted to kill his father to save his and his brothers life.

 From that, we can conclude that if the parents don’t concern about their children or furthermore, they do something bad or something cruel to their children. Their children can be stress, or depressed. It can cause moral deviations of the teenagers. And the teenagers can do something bad or cruel too.
The second is the environment where the teenagers associate. We know that sometimes the teenagers can not think right yet. And their moral and emotions can change easily. The bad association can cause the bad growth of the teenagers’ moral. If the teenagers have an association with bad people, they can be bad too. For the proof, this time there are many good teenagers who fall into a bad association, because they have an association with bad people. They become a gangster, wild racer, smoker, drunker, or narcotics user. If they have fallen into a bad association, they can do stubborn things easily.

For example, this is a story of a gangster from Penyebar Semangat, May 2006
Story of a Gangster

Agus Arifin a gangster from Pandeglang prisoned for 14 years, because he killed a man who also a gangster. People can not suppose that Agus will do that stubborn thing. Agus known as a good boy, but he changed after he became a gangster. As a gangster, he had many enemies. One day, another gangster snatched his area. Agus warned that gangster, but the gangster ignored him and challenged him. So, Agus became angry and he fought that gangster. At that fighting incident, Agus become blinded and killed that gangster. So, polices catch him. In prison he said that he was regretted, and he will try to change.

From that, we can conclude that a bad association can make a moral deviation for the teenagers. So, if the teenagers have an association with bad people, they will be bad too.
In my recommendation, we must to end the moral deviations of the teenagers, because they can cause negative effect for their future. This is important, because they are the young generation who important to build the nation.  To end the moral deviation of the teenagers, we need participation of every side, especially the teenagers’ parents, because they have a responsibility to learn and to keep the teenagers’ moral in right direction. The parents must to concern with their children in order to avoid them from a bad activity and a bad association. And the teenagers’ activity should be organized into good activity. A good activity can keep the teenagers’ moral in right direction. The examples of the activities are religion activity, social activity, natural lovers, or etc.
    

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